Wedding Preparations
Wedding Preparation Checklist for the Bride & Groom
1-3 Months Before the Wedding
BRIDE
Finalize wedding dress alterations
- Purchase and break in wedding shoes
- Schedule hair and makeup trial
- Select jewelry and accessories
- Prepare emergency kit (makeup, tissues, safety pins, etc.)
- Confirm bouquet and floral details
Groom
- Ensure suit/tuxedo fitting is complete
- Purchase dress shoes and accessories
- Get haircut plan scheduled
- Confirm boutonniere selection
- Prepare vows if writing your own
Both
- Obtain marriage license requirements
- Finalize guest list and seating chart
- Confirm vendors and timeline
- Create shot list for photographer
- Plan honeymoon details
- Finalize ceremony details and vows
1 Week Before
Bride
- Final dress fitting
- Manicure and pedicure
- Prepare wedding-day items bag:
- Dress
- Veil
- Shoes
- Jewelry
- Perfume
- Invitation suite for detail photos
Groom
- Pick up suit/tuxedo
- Try on complete outfit
- Pack:
- Suit
- Shirt
- Tie/Bow tie
- Belt/Suspenders
- Shoes
- Socks
- Cufflinks
- Watch
Both
- Confirm timeline with vendors
- Confirm transportation
- Practice vows
- Prepare gratuities for vendors
- Stay hydrated and get plenty of sleep
Wedding Day – Getting Ready Details1 Week Before
*Please always be prepared and finish everything before the timeline*
Bride Details for Photos
- Wedding dress
- Veil
- Shoes
- Bouquet
- Invitation suite
- Engagement ring
- Wedding bands
- Jewelry
- Perfume
- Something old, new, borrowed, blue
- Vow book
Groom Details for Photos
- Suit/tuxedo
- Tie or bow tie
- Shoes
- Cufflinks
- Watch
- Cologne
- Wedding band
- Boutonniere
- Vow book
Wedding Day Essentials
Bride Emergency Kit
- Lipstick/lip gloss
- Powder
- Tissues
- Bobby pins
- Safety pins
- Fashion tape
- Deodorant
- Pain reliever
- Water bottle
- Snacks
Groom Emergency Kit
- Extra socks
- Stain remover pen
- Breath mints
- Deodorant
- Comb
- Safety pins
- Water bottle
- Snacks
Don't Forget
✅ Marriage license
✅ Rings
✅ Vows
✅ Bouquet & boutonniere
✅ Wedding attire
✅ Relax and enjoy the day together!
For beach weddings in Hawaii, I also recommend:
- Reef-safe sunscreen
- Sunglasses
- Sand-friendly footwear
- Small towel for touch-ups
- Clear umbrella (just in case of light rain)
I'm looking forward to serving you! Mahalo!